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Monday, July 25, 2011

Di Sebalik Tabir Majlis Perkahwinan....

Good Afternoon ladies....

Just wanna share with you..nadya baru balik from Vietnam last saturday...n nanti nadya akan review pasal vietnam trip :)
kat sane nadya beli a few je kain cotton untuk dijual for raye...heeheeh :)

So, tghari ni nadya nak cite psl Di Sebalik Tabir Majlis Perkahwinan..kadang2 kite dah plan ahead..camne kite nak our Wedding Day to be..but yet, still DISASTER!!!
Sometime it is not from our side..but then, it maybe from our fren..relative or vendors rite?
Here nadya nak kongsikan few incidents hapenned during my WEDDING DAY :)

 Nikah - 1st May 2011

Ok, rasenye nadya dah penah post yg nadya beli kain bridesmaid nadya kat Jakarta..Refer this entry
So nadya ade 11 Bridesmaid..n beli 11 pasang kain..bukan murah ok kain die..but mengenangkan this is for my wedding n nadya nak all my bridesmaid nampak cantik...dengan pakaian seragam,ku gagahkan jugak beli kain sorang satu...
So awal2 dah bg kain kat all my bridesmaid...buat baju kurung je..coz nadya nikah kat masjid..susah sangat ke kan?xpyh la nak bling bling bagai....
so 2 weeks before my wedding day..dah siap text all my bridesmaid..remind kan dieorg on my big day..kene jumpe kat ne n pakai bj yg nadya bli kain tu..everyone said ok.
Taraaaaaaaa....bile actual wedding day...tgh nadya dimakeupkan oleh DEQ SHA, damnnn!!!
i saw my cuzen datang dgn terhegeh2,,dah la lambat n datang buat muke slambe..pakai bj lain ok!!!
damnnnn..bile nadya tanye...mane baju?dengan selambe die ckp baju XSIAP!!!
hellloooo..tukang jahit mane ko cari?razwan radzwill ke?sampai lame beno n extravaganza ke design die tu sampai 5 bulan xsiap2 lagi kan?
padahal buat baju kurung je..bukan susah sgt kan?
So mase tu..air mate dah jatuh..damnnnnn..its my big day ok!!!
sampai hati kan kdg2 dieorg ni xgune otak..dgn slambe wat majlis kite tu mcm xde pe2 meaning!huh!!!
mmg bengang n sabar gile je ar..sampai skang if nadya tgk balik gbr or ingat balik..mmgs akit hati!!!
kalau tau jd cmtu..ckp la awl2 kan?
mustahil if within 5 months xleh siap for a simple baju kurung rite?
ni la sikap org2 yg SELFISH!!!
So, nadya advisekan korang..if btol2 nak ade bridesmaid or dulang gurls..carila org yg btol2 korang bleh trust!!!
last minit mcm ni..mmg boleh jadi tau...
So, nadya mmg sedeh gile mase tu..make up pon dah hbs kene air mate :( :(
but my best fren aka my pengapit..byk tenangkan nadya mase tu..die suruh nadya jgn pk dah..coz its my big day n of coz i wanna look pretty n happy..
xnak nanti gbr ade kesan lebam coz mascara jatuh kan?xcantek!!!!




Ni la my best fren aka my pengapit for nikah, yg byk comfort nadya mase nanges coz my cuzen datang as my dulang gurls tu xpakai bj yg nadya dah blikan tu :(
Nampak x muke nadya tgh bengang actually?hahaahahaha..xnampak kan?


Ni la my dulang gurls...so sepatutnye sume dulang gurls nadya pakai baju ni..tapi my cuzen tu pakai bj lain!!!ishhhhhhhhh..geram!!



Bile jadi bende yg xdiigini..xpyh pk dah..yg penting kite nak majlis akad nikah kite tu selamat kan?
and now alhamdulillah I'm happy :)


My Reception - Dewan Merak Kayangan 2nd May 2011

Erm, mase ni nervous..ye la..coz nadya wat Formal Wedding with the VIP's sume...mmg takut gile!coz everything yg nadya buat..from jalan..senyum..sume org bleh nampak from the screen..
Mase nadya sampai dewan ptg tu for make up..tgk pelamin nadya lain color!!!
OMG, lain color yg nadya nak..lain color yg die bg!!
lepastu nadya mintak kerusi lain..kerusi lain jugak yg die bg..huh!
Perasaan?mmg sentap!!!
call vendor for plamin berpuluh2 kali..xangkat!!!siap sms suruh tukar color xreply!
dalam hati Allah je yg tau, cmne nadya rase...
nanges lagi!!!!
gerammmmmmmm+ marahhhhhhhhh
Seb baik last minute..me n hubby ade idea, untuk letak paper lantern tu hiaskan supaya x nampak contra sgt beza color pelamin tuh...
Vendor plamin kiteorg tu, directly from Felda plak tu..lgsg xprofessional!!!
bile dah hbs mak;is..tau plak sms mintak balance for plamin!
damn....yg ko bg salah color tu ade aku bising kan?
malas nak gaduh dah...so nadya pon byr je la walaupon geram!!!
Then, mase my wedding day...Hujan Lebat gile tu..risau sgt2 if org xdpt dtg coz terperangkap dlm hujan n worstttttt, kalau org malas kur umah coz hujan!
Lg horror mase tu my own family pon sekat dalam jam...hati risau gile coz takut xde org nak sambut guest nanti...
Alhamdulillah mase tu my best fren sume dah sampai..so dieorg la yg back up sambut 2-3 org guest yg mase tu dah sampai awal...
bile my family sampai..turn my family plak jage...
Mase tgh make up tu..damnnnnn, lagi skali!!!
Aduhhhhhhhh, nadya lupe nak bwk my Wedding Cake!!!! astagaaaaaa..tertinggal kat umah coz mase tu klam kabut nak gi siap kat Dewan Merak tu..
Call my sista to pick it up....
Dengan dlm hujan tu la...my sis runner balik umah n amik...
ahahahahah :) gile kan?
Moral of the stories : If buat majlis, pastikan ade org back up nak sambut tetamu mcm tu...atleast org lain tau ape ur plan is..cm nadya..everything from A-Z, nadya wat sendri..so bile pengantin yg wats endri..xbgtau org kengkonon terror..hahaahah :) amik!
seb baik everything went well ok...fooohhhhhhhhhhhh



Heheheheeh..wedding cake yg tertinggal :)


Korang oersan x pelamin tu color gold?lepastu kain kat stage tu color pink??
last2 seb baik kiteorg ade idea letak paper lantern ni kat tangga supaya xnampak sgt contra warne die...


Majlis Bertandang - 22nd May 2011

A week before majlis blah hubby..amik baju for bertandang..
alamak..bile amik baju tu, cm xsame ape yg nadya nak..
so, nadya mcm xconfident nak pakai..ye la, its our big day..sure nak nampak cantek kan?
mase tu hubby tgk baju tu pon, hubby xberkenan..heheeheh :) seb baik!
so bleh tukar..masalahnye...mane nak cari baju dlm mase sminggu kan?
gi survey butik2 pengantin..and xjumpe pon yg amne berkenan...kalau jumpe yg berkenan plak, xbleh alter size..
memandangkan ketinggian nadya yg xmencukupi..bj2 kat butik2 sumenye oversize...
last minute call Oscar.Yup, he is my designer from Baju nikah n reception.
Oscar po tkejut..mane nak wat baju dalam mase sminggu...
Disebabkan die ksian tgk nadya..alhamdulillah, die sempat jugak buat baju tu within a week!
and fabulous!!!!
Semua baju yg Oscar buat..from Nikah, Reception n Sanding sumeye cantik!!!
mmg xtipu..for those sape yg blom buat baju..call OSCAR- 0193378136
mmg u all akan puas hati..die mmg teliti sgt design n jahit baju..
so ape yg u suke kdg2 xkene dgn badan kite,die akan bgtau what is rite or not...
And mase on the day it self..tgh bersiap2 tu..hahahah :) nadya baru perasan yg cincin nikah sume kat umah!!!
erk, xbwk..tertinggal coz malam tu sibuk pakai inai balik n lupe nak pakai cincin tu balik...
seb baik auntie ade lagi kat umah, so suruh die tolong bawakkan...
huhuhuh :)
Macam2 hal kan?tp alhamdulillah everything went well mase majlis :)

Tapi still sedih coz dalam tahun ni, 2 family members nadya pegi mengadap Illahi...

1st Jan 2011- My beloved grandma passed away-Al Fatihah

27th April 2011 - which 3 days before my wedding - My uncle passed away - Al Fatihah

So, tu je la yg jadi mase My Wedding Day aritu..dimana org lain xtau..heheehh :)
Tapi walau pe pon yg jadi....mase tu korang sume xleh nakw at pe dah..
the best tips..senyum je..bile nadya tgk balik gbr2 kawen..sume org cakap nadya senyum non stop!hahaahahaahah :) Alhamdulillah....
Padahal sebelom majlis mcm2 dugaan..and even mase majlis pon mcm2...
And im glad that nadya still boleh control perasaan marah..bengang..nanges sume tu...SENYUM je tau..
wlupon mase korang kat pelamin tu mungkin rase nak menjerit...nak cekik org2 yg buat korang marah tu...
Jangan ikutkan prasaan ok..nanti gbr jd xcantik!
xkan nak simpan gbr yg nampak korang sume masam...muke geram kan?eheheheheh..xmo mcmtu ok si cantek sume....




Baju kontroversi heehhehe :) yg siap dalam mase sminggu! Thanks Oscar!

Well, tu je yg nadya nak share dgn korang..huhuhuh :)

17 comments:

  1. peringatan yang baik untuk saya nadya thanks..yela kita kena tell someone about pelan kita kan :)

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  2. wahhh byknye dugaan...apa2 pon i suka baju bertandang u..sgt cantik!

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  3. anaztasias-heheheh :) yup dear..u kene bgtau ur family members or ur best friend tentang flow majlis..if not,nanti kelam kabut..heheeheh :)

    nana-tu la pasal beb... :) anyway tq :)

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  4. waaaahhhhhhhh...baju seminggu u 2 gojes okeyh?!sukaaa.... =)

    and thanks for the advice.penting utk elakkan jd bridezilla mase wedding day 2.. ;)

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  5. seminggu? cantik okeh! i pon de banyak dugaan masa my big day. sampai kat meja beradap pon bole nampak muke i bengang dalam gambar tuh. haihh..

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  6. cheqmoomoo-heheheh :) doakan agar ur majlis ok eh..harap2 xde pe2 :) bykkkan berdoa dear :)

    AnM-ehheeheh :p yup, sminggu je baju tu siap..alhamdulillah beb..mmg berterima kasih sgt2 to Oscar :)

    Veesakura-yup..sminggu je Oscar jahit baju i with veil n beads sume..He is recommended...sesape yg still tgh nak cari designer..hire Osar!

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  7. baju 1 week siap tu super gorjes nad!
    love to the max.

    * cite ni bt i beringat2 n supaya senyum je even ade prob pon

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  8. tp i rasa bile dh dlm gmbr lawa je pelamin u tu..huhu...smpai nangis2 ye..takut jugak if jd kat i.i dh lam main "lantakla apa nk jd" hahaha...bj tandang u i loike!

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  9. woah byk kot dugaan.. takutnyer..luckily u jenis yg bersabar dear.. i paling takut part pelamin yg from Felda tu jer cos belah tandang i amek package felda@dewan yayasan gemilang kelana jaya..gudang dia kat subang kan??

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  10. Nadya dah gone through so much, tapi masih come out of it like a strong woman. :D Saya harap2 all my plans will go as smoothly as possible after reading this, haha.

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  11. nadya... i baca ur blog from start u citer nenek u meninggal, then u accident sume... tapi alhamdulillah, ur wedding walaupun mungkin ada yang tak best, tapi endingnya best kan?

    apa2 pun, u dah selamat skrg n baju kontroversi u tu sangat2 cantik!!!

    congratz

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  12. Linda-heehhehh :) tq darling..mase tu i dah cuak gile..mane nak cari baju dalam sminggu beb...
    So nanti on ur big day..u senyum je okies :)

    Lisa-Heheheheh :) u buat back up plan..if anything worst happened beb...i nye plamin tu..haishhhhh,lain color..lain kerusi..mcm2 beb...
    dah la call byk kali xangkat..u bygkan prasaan i mase tu...

    Renee-dah puas nanges beb...this year mmg mcm2 dugaan yg i tempuhi..honestly 2011 was a very challenging year for me...
    erm,i xtau gudang die kat mane coz i amik package kat Dewan Merak Kayangan tu...

    Fie-I'Allah beb..i doakan yg terbaik untuk u all..:)
    Serahkan segala2nye kepada Allah..kite dah merancang yg terbaik rite?but Allah yg menentukan..ape je dugaan yg dtg..I'Allah kite sume kene tetap teruskan n tempuh dgn sabar...

    Syima-yes beb..lepas 1-1 kan?
    memule nenek i mninggal...pastu i accident..then 3 days before i kawen..my uncle mninggal plak sudden death due to heart attack..Hanye Allah yg maha mengetahui pe yg i rase..

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  13. out of all dugaan.....semuanya berjalan lancar....alhamdulillah... =)

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  14. Hunny-Alhamdulillah beb..n tq for being there rite from my nikah, sanding n bertandang..tq muahss

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