Marriage is not all about WEDDING DAY.....

Hye Gals...
How are you? Alhamdulillah..hari ni dah hari ke 5 kite sume berpuasa...cepat je mase berlalu kan?
Tak lame lagi nak raye....so nanti nak kene bli kuih raya..baju raya..hahaahahah :)
Actually hari ni nadya buat entry ni coz now nadya baru sedar actually...
Marriage is not all about WEDDING DAY.
Yes, kalau for wedding...mmg kite nak sume yg the best for us...Kite nak kawen skali je seumur hidup n I'Allah biarla kite kekal bahagia selamanya di samping husband yg tercinta kan?
Mase kite membuat perancangan untuk kawen..we want the Best Dress, the best make up artist..the best OP & OV..the best caterer...the best place for wedding...the best pelamin...the best in everything...btol x?heheheeheh
Nadya pon mase tu..sume bende nak yg the best...Xde duit pon seboleh2 usaha gak cari duit coz kengkonon that is our big day..harus nak feeling2 diva gitu..hehehheh :) btol x?
harus nak feeling kite yg paling cantik kan?

Tapi cube korang pk..duit yg kite simpan bertahun2...just habis for 1 day event je...
yg actually sume bende yg remeh temeh..hanye kite je yg tau..YES...hanye kite je...
Korang cube ingat balik kenduri kawen ur cuzen or ur frens...korang akan notice ke bende yg sekecil2nye pon?
example...reben kat kad kawen die lari from color tema...or baju die mcm kurang beads...door gift die bg korang simpan ke sampai skang?yg simpan tu..alhamdulillah la..but berapa ramai yg actually simpan door gift after few years?end up ke tong sampah gak dieorg buang...
maybe kite bloggers ni tau la hargai every details..tapi how about org lain?n korang ingat lagi x cmne design baju kawen kawan korang for last year? baju ape dieorg pakai?sape designer?
i bet..xsume bende tu kite ingat kan?
padahal si pengantin tu dulu sibuk gak jadi BRIDEZILLA...heheeheheh :p

Well, learn from the experienced...alhamdulillah, nadya dapat most of ape yg nadya nak for my wedding...even not everything...lain la kalau Nadya ni ANAK TAN SRI kan?
Tapi...now baju2 tu berlonggok je dalam almari..sayang kan?
Nadya dapat my dream MUA..alhamdulillah...yg tu harussssssss!!!penting tau MUA..
Nadya dapat designer yg nadya suke...baju yg cantik....Alhamdulillah lagi....

But after majlis dah habis..then we realized we enter a big TRANSFORMATION in our life...
YES...it is MARRIAGE!

Selame ni it is all about ourself kan?
Bile dah kawen...kite dah kene pk husband...family...mcm2 lagi....now. its no more about me :)
Now, kalau kite kene bukak pose kat luar dgn client ke ape..nanti terpk..ape eh husband aku makan kat umah ni...
Dulu, nak kuar umah sesuke hati..nak balik kol bape pon xpk panjang...
Now, nak kuar umah dah kene mintak izin suami...kalau kite lepak dgn kengkawan...dah akan pk, eh nak kene balik umah..husband tunggu kat umah...heheheheh :)

Banyak yang nadya belajar in marriage...
Kene banyak tolak ansur...
TOLAK ANSUR tu the most important thing is marriage i guess...
Ye la, bile dah kawen ni...kite dah tinggal sebumbung dengan pasangan. Korang kene ingat kite mahupon pasangan dibesarkan dalam keluarga yg berasingan...so, maybe dalam family kite...kite dah biese buat sesuatu bende...but mungkin dalam family die..bende tu boleh dikire mcm tidak sopan ke..or maybe pasangan kite dah biasa buat sesuatu bende yg maybe to his/her family...bende tu acceptable...tp maybe bg kite it is unacceptable...

So bile dah kawen ni...kite kene banyak bertolak ansur n memahami antara satu sama lain...
Memang bg nadya, marriage is not easy.
You know why, nadya xreti memasak...xreti nak mengemas...n i find it THE MOST STRESSFUL job to do!
hahaahahahaha :) pemalas kan nadya nih?

Slowly..nadya nak kene belajar memasak...nak belajar kemas umah...
Ade kes nadya tgk..bile time bercinta dulu...fulamakkkkkkk..punye loving!!!
I LOVE YOU...YOU LOVE ME....
tapi bile dah kawen....si suami jalan depan..si isteri tinggal kat belakang..

Kalau dulu zaman bercinta...kalau pasangan jatuh tersepak batu tu...dieorg bleh plak marahkan batu...tp bile dah kawen...kalau pasangan terlanggar batu...dimarahkan plak..."hey, awak buta ke?xnampak batu??" hahahahahaah...

Jangan la kite jadi cam gini eh...
Kalau boleh...walaupon kite dah kawen...perasaan kasih sayang/rindu tu mesti tetap ade..

Sebelom kawen...smua bende yg kite nampak..kite suka, sume kite nak beli...
Bile dah kawen...banyak bende yg kite kene belajar...
Life after kawen lagi banyak nak pakai duit....

Ye la, pas kawen..sure nak gi honeymoon kan? Pastu sape yg dah bli rumah..nak masuk rumah baru..nak renovate..beli furniture sume...
Sape yg dapat rezki awal..tup tup...bunting pelamin...trus preggy...nak pk pasal baby plak...monthly check up...nanti duit nak bersalin..kelengkapan baby...fooohhhhhhh..banyak tau!

Kalau kite dah spend large amount of money...mane kite nak cari duit lagi for all this?
Btol x?
So nadya nasihatkan b2b's out there...be practical on what u gonna spend for your big day...
Saving money doesn't mean that ur wedding gonna be cheapskate!

Contohnye..nadya tau..ramai b2b's out there terror DIY kan?
So, kalau korang ade kekreatifan idea2 yg vastttttttt...why not korang implement for korang nye big day?
mane tau..bile org dah nampak..ha, mane tau korang nye kengkawan bleh tempah ape yg korang buat tu?
btol x?

If i could only turn back time...hahahahha :) nak je nadya save sebanyak mungkin for my wedding day aritu....
Ni x..sume bende nadya rase nadya nak buat..ye la, kite sume mesti pk..korang nak kawen skali je seumur hidup kan?

Rase banyak bende yg nadya bleh DIY...xyah membazir2 duit dah tempah kat org...
heheheheeh :)

I think that's my 2 cents!
Wish all b2b's out there...good luck for your wedding preparations... :)

Nadya pon I'Allah nak masuk rumah baru pas raye nanti..hahahah :)
skang ni tgh bz nak save balik duit...
dh byk hbs pon wedding..for honeymoon :)

Doakan yg terbaik untuk nadya juga okies?

Till then gurls.........